“Interesting Things That People Can Do” Like Crying Rape After VR Groping

One could call this a bad product launch. Bonus: Meta-Zuck blamed the victim!

Meta opens up access to its VR social platform Horizon Worlds

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By Alex Heath, 9 December 2021

More than two years and a company rebrand later, Meta is finally opening up access to its VR social platform Horizon Worlds. Starting Thursday, people in the US and Canada who are 18 and up will be able to access the free Quest app without an invite.

Horizon Worlds is Meta’s first attempt at releasing something that resembles CEO Mark Zuckerberg’s vision of the metaverse. It’s an expansive, multiplayer platform that meshes Roblox and the OASIS VR world from Ready Player One. Originally just called Horizon, it requires a Facebook account and lets you hang out with up to 20 people at a time in a virtual space.

First announced in September 2019 as a private beta, Horizon Worlds has evolved from primarily being a Minecraft-like environment for building games to more of a social platform. Its thousands of beta testers have held regular comedy shows, movie nights, and meditation sessions. They’ve also built elaborate objects like a replica of the Ecto-1 from Ghostbusters. “Now we can open up and say we have interesting things that people can do,” Vivek Sharma, Meta’s VP of Horizon, tells me.

YAY! Let’s do interesting things!

Safety is a big concern for a VR environment like Horizon Worlds, where you can easily interact with someone you don’t know.

That didn’t take long. Can we do interesting things or not?

Earlier this month, a beta tester posted in the official Horizon group on Facebook about how her avatar was groped by a stranger. “Sexual harassment is no joke on the regular internet, but being in VR adds another layer that makes the event more intense,” she wrote. “Not only was I groped last night, but there were other people there who supported this behavior which made me feel isolated in the Plaza.”


Sharma calls the incident “absolutely unfortunate” and says that after Meta reviewed the incident, the company determined that the beta tester didn’t utilize the safety features built into Horizon Worlds, including the ability to block someone from interacting with you. (When you’re in Horizon, a rolling buffer of what you see is saved locally on your Oculus headset and then sent to Meta for human review if an incident is reported.) “That’s good feedback still for us because I want to make [the blocking feature] trivially easy and findable,” he says.

Who could have guessed that “enable hugs” would be classified as a safety toggle?


26 Nov. Incident happened

1 Dec. Barbie discovered she’d been rayyyped and reported the incident to her Facebook account. Does that count as official notification to Facebook? Either way, official notice was taken and Sharma blamed her for not enabling safety features.

9 Dec. Sharma launches “Horizon Worlds” out of Beta.

Thus proving that male feminist fearless defenders of empowered, helpless wymyn will still shove her under a bus when politically convenient.

Another unique aspect of Horizon Worlds is the human guides that exist to greet new users as they teleport from the Plaza to different worlds. These guides are power users that Meta employees train to know best practices for navigating Horizon and following its behavior rules. Sharma calls it “one of those areas where we’re doing unscalable things to keep the environment to be a place that’s healthy for communities.”

The metaverse has a groping problem already

A woman was sexually harassed on Meta’s VR social media platform. She’s not the first—and won’t be the last.

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By Tanya Basu, 16 December 2021

Nobody could have seen this coming, especially after Zuckerberg bragged that it would be the dating lounge of the future.

Last week, Meta (the umbrella company formerly known as Facebook) opened up access to its virtual-reality social media platform, Horizon Worlds. Early descriptions of the platform make it seem fun and wholesome, drawing comparisons to Minecraft. In Horizon Worlds, up to 20 avatars can get together at a time to explore, hang out, and build within the virtual space.

But not everything has been warm and fuzzy. According to Meta, on November 26, a beta tester reported something deeply troubling: she had been groped by a stranger on Horizon Worlds. On December 1, Meta revealed that she’d posted her experience in the Horizon Worlds beta testing group on Facebook.

“Let’s play with strangers!”

“Help, I’ve been groped by a stranger!”

Xenophilia or xenophobia, Barbie. Pick one already!

Meta’s internal review of the incident found that the beta tester should have used a tool called “Safe Zone” that’s part of a suite of safety features built into Horizon Worlds. Safe Zone is a protective bubble users can activate when feeling threatened. Within it, no one can touch them, talk to them, or interact in any way until they signal that they would like the Safe Zone lifted.

Vivek Sharma, the vice president of Horizon, called the groping incident “absolutely unfortunate,” telling The Verge, “That’s good feedback still for us because I want to make [the blocking feature] trivially easy and findable.”

Pick! One! Already!

It’s not the first time a user has been groped in VR—nor, unfortunately, will it be the last. But the incident shows that until companies work out how to protect participants, the metaverse can never be a safe place.

Remember, only Big Brother can keep you safe! Or not:

When Aaron Stanton heard about the incident at Meta, he was transported to October 2016. That was when a gamer, Jordan Belamire, penned an open letter on Medium describing being groped in Quivr, a game Stanton co-designed in which players, equipped with bow and arrows, shoot zombies.

In the letter, Belamire described entering a multiplayer mode, where all characters were exactly the same save for their voices. “In between a wave of zombies and demons to shoot down, I was hanging out next to BigBro442, waiting for our next attack. Suddenly, BigBro442’s disembodied helmet faced me dead-on. His floating hand approached my body, and he started to virtually rub my chest. ‘Stop!’ I cried … This goaded him on, and even when I turned away from him, he chased me around, making grabbing and pinching motions near my chest. Emboldened, he even shoved his hand toward my virtual crotch and began rubbing.

Big Brother? Is that you?

“There I was, being virtually groped in a snowy fortress with my brother-in-law and husband watching.”

Was her BIL laughing at the time? Stay strong, Red Sonja!

Stanton and his cofounder, Jonathan Schenker, immediately responded with an apology and an in-game fix. Avatars would be able to stretch their arms into a V gesture, which would automatically push any offenders away.

*tune of ‘You can’t be my lover if you won’t be my friend’*

You can’t be a gamer… if you won’t play my game… dumb jokes are not forever… but safe space is always lame…

Stanton, who today leads the VR Institute for Health and Exercise, says Quivr didn’t track data about that feature, “nor do I think it was used much.” But Stanton thinks about Belamire often and wonders if he could have done more in 2016 to prevent the incident that occurred in Horizon Worlds a few weeks ago. “There’s so much more to be done here,” he says. “No one should ever have to flee from a VR experience to escape feeling powerless.”

No programmer should ever have to patch his work so women can shut him out of it.

A recent review of the events around Belamire’s experience published in the journal for the Digital Games Research Association found that “many online responses to this incident were dismissive of Belamire’s experience and, at times, abusive and misogynistic … readers from all perspectives grappled with understanding this act given the virtual and playful context it occurred in.” Belamire faded from view, and I was unable to find her online.

The demand for VR rape-rape far exceeds the supply.

A constant topic of debate on message boards after Belamire’s Medium article was whether or not what she had experienced was actually groping if her body wasn’t physically touched.

“I think people should keep in mind that sexual harassment has never had to be a physical thing,” says Jesse Fox, an associate professor at Ohio State University who researches the social implications of virtual reality. “It can be verbal, and yes, it can be a virtual experience as well.

Katherine Cross, who researches online harassment at the University of Washington, says that when virtual reality is immersive and real, toxic behavior that occurs in that environment is real as well. “At the end of the day, the nature of virtual-reality spaces is such that it is designed to trick the user into thinking they are physically in a certain space, that their every bodily action is occurring in a 3D environment,” she says. “It’s part of the reason why emotional reactions can be stronger in that space, and why VR triggers the same internal nervous system and psychological responses.”

Translation: don’t read a headline about San Francisco while using Meta or you’ll shit on the floor.

That was true in the case of the woman who was groped on Horizon Worlds. According to The Verge, her post read: “Sexual harassment is no joke on the regular internet, but being in VR adds another layer that makes the event more intense. Not only was I groped last night, but there were other people there who supported this behavior which made me feel isolated in the Plaza [the virtual environment’s central gathering space].”

Everybody was laughing at her!

The real problem, perhaps, has to do with the perception that when you play a game or participate in a virtual world, there’s what Stanton describes as a “contract between developer and player.” “As a player, I’m agreeing to being able to do what I want in the developer’s world according to their rules,” he says. “But as soon as that contract is broken and I’m not feeling comfortable anymore, the obligation of the company is to return the player to wherever they want to be and back to being comfortable.”

The real problem is that social media is a world that can only be created and maintained by sexually unattractive/clumsy nerds. Women can’t stand their existence while simultaneously needing their services.

The question is: Whose responsibility is it to make sure users are comfortable? Meta, for example, says it gives users access to tools to keep themselves safe, effectively shifting the onus onto them.

“We want everyone in Horizon Worlds to have a positive experience with safety tools that are easy to find—and it’s never a user’s fault if they don’t use all the features we offer,” Meta spokesperson Kristina Milian said. “We will continue to improve our UI and to better understand how people use our tools so that users are able to report things easily and reliably. Our goal is to make Horizon Worlds safe, and we are committed to doing that work.”

Milian said that users must undergo an onboarding process prior to joining Horizon Worlds that teaches them how to launch Safe Zone. She also said regular reminders are loaded into screens and posters within Horizon Worlds.

Translation, nobody is allowed to join Meta without going through sexual harassment training. That’s the solution they hit on for combining nerds and women in the same buildings in Meatspace. Similarly, posting huge panic buttons everywhere for women who get unwanted attention has proven to be an effective business model for the Planet Fatness chain of gyms. (Their mottos are “No lunks” and “Pizza Monday”.)

But the fact that the Meta groping victim either did not think to use Safe Zone or could not access it is precisely the problem, says Cross. “The structural question is the big issue for me,” she says. “Generally speaking, when companies address online abuse, their solution is to outsource it to the user and say, ‘Here, we give you the power to take care of yourselves.’”

And that is unfair and doesn’t work. Safety should be easy and accessible, and there are lots of ideas for making this possible. To Stanton, all it would take is some sort of universal signal in virtual reality—perhaps Quivr’s V gesture—that could relay to moderators that something was amiss.

Barbie wants a virtual reality in which she is escorted by real-life bodyguards who ruin the lives of anybody who 1. shows interest in her and 2. fails to meet her standards.

Zuckerberg might be inadvertently saving the world by locking these wimminz inside their own minds forever.

Fox wonders if an automatic personal distance unless two people mutually agreed to be closer would help.

Even Pokemon avatars must secure her consent! Wait, how would anybody know she actually is female in Meta?

And Cross believes it would be useful for training sessions to explicitly lay out norms mirroring those that prevail in ordinary life: “In the real world, you wouldn’t randomly grope someone, and you should carry that over to the virtual world.”

Until we figure out whose job it is to protect users, one major step toward a safer virtual world is disciplining aggressors, who often go scot-free and remain eligible to participate online even after their behavior becomes known. “We need deterrents,” Fox says. That means making sure bad actors are found and suspended or banned. (Milian said Meta “[doesn’t] share specifics about individual cases” when asked about what happened to the alleged groper.)

I thought the point of VR was to escape reality? Particularly the unpleasant parts of it like false rape accusations destroying peoples’ lives?

Stanton regrets not pushing more for industry-wide adoption of the power gesture and failing to talk more about Belamire’s groping incident. “It was a lost opportunity,” he says. “We could have avoided that incident at Meta.”

The worst way to handle an online media launch is publicly regretting the failure to destroy the life of the only person who got accused of rape during the beta test. “Now it’s your turn!”

If anything is clear, it’s this: There is no body that’s plainly responsible for the rights and safety of those who participate anywhere online, let alone in virtual worlds. Until something changes, the metaverse will remain a dangerous, problematic space.

Humanity is dead in its sins and Meta-Zuck is dead in its social justice.

4 thoughts on ““Interesting Things That People Can Do” Like Crying Rape After VR Groping

  1. “Until something changes, the metaverse will remain a dangerous, problematic space.”

    These people are insane. I invision a future where going into any virtual reality is equivalent to going into an asylum IRL.

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  2. Karen von Barbie begins her conquest of AR and VR. The Future is Female even if we have to kill you all.

    If I looked like Mark Fuckerburg I’d probably have to create alternate universes too. Seeing as how I will never measure up in the real world. Except in a circus mebbe.

    ‘The real problem is that social media is a world that can only be created and maintained by sexually unattractive/clumsy nerds. Women can’t stand their existence while simultaneously needing their services.’

    Yes that was me with the doves
    setting them free near the factory
    where you build your computer, love
    I hope you get the connection
    because I can’t take the rejection
    I won’t deceive you, I just don’t believe you

    ‘Revolution Blues’


  3. And SJW princess could not simply remove her VR helmet? Since when was walking away not acceptable.

    Oops. Did I commit crime-think by assuming zir sex? Maybe zhe identifies as a man, and the true offense was that the groper failed to recognize zir masculinity, treating zir as a woman, thus denying zir self identity. Truly terrifying.


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