The Binary Solution to Hypergamy

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Rollo has wrapped up a series of good posts “Dangerous Times” with three proposed solutions to unchained female hypergamy & AF/BB:

1. Play the Game better


3. Transactional sex

I’d encourage more solutions in the comments. I’m sure a lot of this series seems overly reactionary or disheartening for men who are looking for a return to that stabilizing monogamy. There is an element in the manosphere today who are looking for their Red Pill Trad-Con woman who will police the worst of herself in order to return to the golden era of monogamy. I have my reservations about the real motives of the few women who subscribe to this story, but the issues isn’t about what they will do, but rather what they can do in a feminine-primary social order that allows them to renege on their convictions without consequence.

Those are all good solutions for specific contexts but clearly don’t provide a lasting, society-wide solution. That solution is holding two beliefs simultaneously:

4a. Women are naturally like that.

4b. Women are not supposed to be like that.

The Churchians deny the first belief; PUAs, the second. Accepting both at once is unpleasant because this binary solution is how morality comes into existence, bridging the gap from the first to the second.


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